1. Deixis and distance

Deixis is a technical term (from Greek) for one of the most basic things we do with utterances. It means ' pointing ' via language. Any linguistic form used to accomplish this ' pointing ' is called a deictic expression. Deictic expressions are also sometimes called indexicals.

They are among the first forms to be spoken by very young children and can be used to indicate :

people via person deixis ( ' me ' , ' you ' ) , 

location via spatial deixis ( ' here ' , ' there ' ) , 

 time via temporal deixis ( now ' , ' then ' )

 In English, the ' near speaker  or proximal terms, are ' this ' , ' here ' , ' now ' .  The ' away from speaker ' , or distal terms , are ' that ' , ' there ' , ' then ' .

All these expressions depend, for their interpretation, on the speaker and hearer sharing the same context.